

Yesterday I finished Tim and Beverly LaHaye's 'The Act of Marriage." I must confess my hesitancy to read this one. For one, I am not a dispensationalist, and personally think that Tim Lahaye needs to chill out. Also, I read this quote from LaHaye on the back of Dave Hunt's horrible attempt to refute Calvinism:
's ever-so controversial book 'Confessions of a Reformission Rev.' The book is the history of his church. The subtitle is 'Hard Lessons From An Emerging Missional Church.' People have seemed to begin slandering without reading the title of the book. The point is to show how much he messed up, and how God has built the church in spite of him. Challies reviewed it, and was blasted with 174 comments, most of which were slandering Driscoll and his ministry. If you read Challies, be sure and read Jollyblogger's take. His is the best but there is more here, here, here, and here. I agree that Driscoll pushes the envelope in many places. This book has red question marks all through it where I asked myself, 'Was that really necessary?' Usually it wasn't. He is very sarcastic, and irreverent at times, which is a problem. But I really appreciate a lot of what he is doing. I believe him when he says, 'My deepest desire is to be fruitful for Jesus' (183). For one, he is reaching people in Seattle who usually wouldn't be caught dead in church. If that was it, I rejoice. More than that though, he is reformed in his theology, expositional in his preaching, his church is led by a plurality of elders (and it takes at least a year to become an elder), they baptize believers, they are very missional, huge on church planting (see Acts 29), complimentarian, continuationists, and they have a very strict membership process. I can't argue with that. I hope he continues to write, and he mentions in the book plans on writing books on election, male headship, and church leadership. I'd buy them. Peep it:On Congregationalism: 'As I studied the Bible, I found more warrant for a church led by unicorns than by a majority vote.' (103)
'I wanted a church filled with missionaries, Christians who were learning how to become missionaries, and lost people. I would not accept a church filled with Christians who did not give, serve, or reach lost people, because they invariably make themselves and their selfish desires the mission of a church and kill innovation and momentum.' (112)


As my countdown to marriage is now less than 3 weeks, I am finishing up a couple of books on the subject. This weekend I finished 'Sacred Marriage' by Gary Thomas. It was pretty good. It was almost 300 pages, and I think he could have made it about 75. There were some good insights though. The sub-title is 'What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More than to Make Us Happy?' It is more a book on sanctification, kind of like Scott's 'Exemplary Husband', which I need to hear over and over. "Any situation that calls me to confront my selfishness has enormous spiritual value, and I slowly began to understand that the real purpose of marriage may not be happiness as much as it is holiness." (22)

Today at work I finished 'The Shaping of the Things to Come: Innovation and Mission for the 21st-Century Church'' by Michael Frost and Alan Hirsch. It wasn't the fastest read, but it was definitely thought provoking. I will go back to it in the future. It was annoying at times, especially with all their trendy adjectives. It did make me think/rethink some issues like membership, reading the gospels through Pauline eyes, bivocational ministry, the need for buildings, distinctive clergy/laity ecclesiology, the 5-fold ministry taught in Ephesians 4:11-13, and so forth. They had some good things to say about our middle classness, our emphasis on right belief rather than right living, and other places where we (evangelicalism) have things a little off. I particularly enjoyed Ch. 7 titled 'The God of Israel and the Renewal of Christianity.' Here are some quotes:
